Hi folks,
This is my first post, and I'm sorry for not making a proper intro but I'm in a bit of a panic. 15 years ago (approx age 22) I voluntary released from my reserve unit. I was a Leading Seaman at the time, and left for no other reason than simple scheduling conflicts with a new career that made it impossible to continue service. I indicated I would be okay with being put on the Supplemental Ready Reserve on the understanding that it would make it easier to re-enlist should it become an option again sometime in the future.
The release was granted without issue. I returned my kit to stores and followed all the out routine instructions provided. The Ship's Office gave the final sign-off and sent me on my way. That was that. Looking back, I didn't receive any formal confirmation following that, but at the time I never thought twice.
Fast forward 5 years...I was in a position that would have allowed me to re-enlist. I returned to the unit to inquire, who directed me to the local recruiting center to start the process. At that time I was told that since I was released NES I wouldn't be able to re-enlist. When I asked what that meant, the explanation obviously came as a shock and surprise to me, and I let them know in no uncertain terms that it had to be some sort of clerical error. I was given a chance to plead my case to the Recruiting Centre Commander (a CWO if I remember), and after a brief investigation he agreed in a follow-up meeting that an error had likely occurred and provided a waiver, allowing me to move forward with the process.
In the end it was all moot anyway. I withdrew from the process for unrelated reasons (an education opportunity unexpectedly presented itself), and nothing more came of it. I didn't think to pursue the NES release matter further since I assumed that since it had been brought to their attention it would be corrected. To be honest, I wasn't even that aware of the gravity of it. I was able to successfully apply for and hold positions with the RCMP that required background checks in the years following. There were never any problems...
Until now. I'm in the process of applying for a US fiance visa. As a former service member I'll be required to show my records at the consulate interview. Anticipating this, I requested a copy which recently arrived. Sure enough, it indicates I was released NES 5(F), which as I've learned from this site is pretty much as bad as it gets; basically the same thing as a dishonorable discharge. Obviously this would be more than enough to sink my chances at getting the visa and in turn basically ruin my life, not to mention crushing my US fiancee.
I honestly don't even know where to start to rectify this. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks in advance!