Former_Engineer said:
i hear you, but "hiding" is NOT what got me here, other personal issues that needed to be dealt with and not being able to actually be at my unit got me here, i will admit i did not take care of it on a timely fashion,
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"no way you can be a cop with 5F" if thats true, thats what im on this site for, to see if i can do something about that, weather its reversing the 5F or anything. yeah i shit the bed, i made mistakes, but i dont think this should affect someones entire career when a man grows up and finally pulls his head from his ass. there has got to be a way. thank you.
I've dealt with a LOT of soldiers who found their way on to the 5F list. I have a soft spot for them because sometimes it's the CFs fault and that's not fair to the soldiers.
I managed to help some, others just didn't give a shit. I've had arguments with kids parents telling their they're idiots if they don't drag their son or daughter in to the reserves in order to clear them out properly.I brought my units 5F list from like 30 down to 6, the rest got released other ways.
LOTS of people have this conception that they can treat it like mcDicks and just not show up for a bunch of shifts and they will eventually stop calling.
What you need to understand is that the reserves deal with a LOT of these people and everyone has a sob story on why they stopped showing up to work. Why they didn't return their kit. Why they landed on a 5F discharge. Most times it's someone else's fault etc..
Honestly dude the army as a whole generally doesn't care much. For the amount of time and effort they put into trusting you again they can probably accept 4 new candidates.
How many people do you think "realized their mistake" to join the army only to quit again? That happens a lot too. I'll give you an example. I had a girl who was put on the 5F list. She put in a memo to transfer, the memo got lost and she sat at home for 2 years waiting for a call. She didn't make any effort to call ANYONE, just waited. I intercepted the 5F paperwork and busted my ass trying to help her out. With the help of an officer through this very forum, after close to a year of work I managed to help get this girl transferred to the unit she waited 2+ years to join. There was a lot of work, a lot of emails back and forth, 100KM trips to turn in gear and sign paperwork.
She was there 2 months, went on 1 exercise then decided to quit the CF because she didn't like it...
I'm not saying don't try, I'm just saying the system isn't on your side. I don't mean to single you out but other people can read your story and maybe learn from it.