What if I'm married, in a polygamous relationship with 3 women, 2 of whom are officers, from units that supply and transport mine and one who is one of my subordinates?
What is the army's policy on this? Can I bring all three of them to the mess? Can I go to their messes? What if one of them is in the reserves, and their CO has a mess function, do the other two count as spouses - should they go in uniform?
Can the army regulate every single portion of my personal life?
To all the posters here, it is always easier to ask for forgiveness than permission, if in doubt, carry on like you would if you were'nt in the military. We have tons of silly rules that are not enforced anyway (like the requirement to seek permission to marry from your CO), so don't worry unless someone says something.