Sure, sorry. That second sentence is exactly the attitude that needs to stop. There is one Army. Full-Stop.
I was a Militia Rat. I left prior to the Total Force army (D9 and the Militia were not compatible).
I have watched the Army and the Reserves (Militia) struggle with trying to create one army out of two very distinct cultures for the best part of 40 years.
At bottom, in my opinion, there are two fundamental issues.
1: 34 days per year versus a 365 day per year commitment.
2: Voluntary association versus contractual association.
The government can make demands of its contracted forces that it can't of its voluntary forces.
There is no way in this world or the next that it is possible to replicate the full array of skills found in a 365 day a year force in 34 days.
You can't get there from here.
Something has to give.
In my view that means lowering the expectations of the Reserves and accepting that while the Reserves can do some jobs with supervision other jobs will require a massive training delta. And, perhaps, different security clearance standards. Physical fitness standards should be common.