ArmyVern said:Save yourself a lifetime of heartache and find a girl that supports and "gets" you now.
Signed: A Girl
Don't ever give up on the dream.
If she is part of it, you will know.
What's important here it that you have to make the ultimatum.
She would have to agree with your vision of what is to be or of what you and her can make it to be,
then intertwine as one and achieve those goals together. (no matter what they may be)
One thing for sure
If you love this girl, (and if she loves you) then make (damn) sure, that you give her every possible opportunity
to make up her mind about a possible future of being a soldiers wife.
No matter the tears nor the joy that may be,
never give up on the dream.
Or you take the girls advice