I'll say this about your poll - the second option, isn't an option, since the Reserves have the same COMMON Enrollment Medical Standard as the Regular Force; therefore, if you can't get into the Regular Force with epilepsy, you're not getting into the Reserves. This is going to be between you, your doctors and the Recruit Medical Officer to get sorted out so that the application can be finalized for better or worse. BTW, your poll questions you posed are best suited for direct questioning in your post, not a poll.
A little point of grammar - "is" is the word more suited for an "option" and "are" is best suited for "options". This will help you out not just here, but out in the real world, where your level of written communications are how you're often initially judged for jobs.
Good luck.
MM